BDSM exchange 2023
May. 26th, 2023 11:03 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
entangledwoodHello traveller,
Let me tell you all about the who the what and the how.
As you might have noticed, my selection of freeforms tends towards the setting more than the kink. Not because I don't have kinky preferences, but more because I'm willing to read pretty much everything that is not part of my DNWs as long as the characters are enjoying it... Or at least have an emotionally satisfying encounter -- looking at you, Tanner. Of course not all kinks are created equal, so I will give you a bit of an rundown again
Bulletproof kinks: exhibitionism (in particulary a character being restrained in some position or another to be put on display/photographed), free use (a character being restrained in a position that allows friends or strangets to use them), verbal humiliation of the fond kind (characters being called slut, fuck-toy or similar, characters being complimented on how needy or wet they are, characters being praised for how pretty they beg, etc)
Other favourites: bratty subs/brat taming, spankings both for the fun of it and for punishment (over the knee, with belt or hand or other implement); shibari bondage; leather harnesses; costumes/revealing outfits (schoolgirl uniforms, maid outfit, etc); service submission (cockwarming, boot blacking, human furniture); caretaking roleplay (ageplay, petplay, medical exam); biting; cbt (slapping, pinching, sounding, clamps)
Good in combination with any of the above: more heavy painplay both for its own sake and for punishment (floggers, whips, canes, crops), predicament bondage, cock-rings, breeding, prostate milking, body modification (piercings or tattoos), desperation play (making sub wait to use the bathroom but letting them go before they wet themself), wet and messy (either thanks to an abundance of cum/wetness, or lube)
Indifferent: blood play, fireplay, orgasm delay/denial, anything that's not on any of the other lists
DNW: scat, watersports (with the exception of desperation play outlined above), vomit, tickling, needles
Once we get past the kinks I'm a sucker for characters trying new things or reaching some kind of emotional milestone -- again looking at you, Kayden and Tanner. Doesn't matter if it's a pair's/trio's first time or if they've been partners for decades. There's always opportunities for new experiences.
If you want to take things AU, I am fond of AUs that take the existing setting and add something to it (BDSM, soulmates, a/b/o, supernatural powers, etc)
My DNWs are: non-con (undernegotiated kink is fine, sub-con is fine, just make it clear that characters are on board inside their heads), unhealthy relationships (the exception being Kayden and Tanner, who I believe start out in an incredibly unhealthy place but are actively working to move past that), unhappy endings (the story should have at least a silver lining), cheating (give me hall passes, give me everyone is poly, give me the canon spouses don't exist, just make sure everyone is okay with what's happening)
Now on to the fandom specifics
Sagas of Sundry: Dread
Kayden tops Tanner SillsAU - Doms can control subs through metaphysical power Sub being made to admit sexual fantasies out loud (consensually but without prior negotiation) fingered to orgasm after discipline spanking
There's a scene early on in Dread where Sat admonishes Kayden not to push people to do things they don't want to do. Kayden replies, that he can't stop pushing people to do thingbs they don't want, it's his whole thing. Let's build on that and take it to the kink sphere, where Kayden is the kind of Dom who will push and prod and taunt his sub to do or endure what he wants. Now turn that onto Tanner, who spends most of the series clamming up and keeping his own desires hidden and you have a recipe for a perfect storm. I don't care how Tanner survived the mountain, or if they brought him back to live (and bound him to Kayden maybe?), what matters is that they are figuring their relationship out. Or maybe figuring out how to make their relationship go from the occassional bout of hate-fucking to something more steady?
Kayden/Tanner SillsAlternate Universe - BDSM AU - Doms can control subs through metaphysical power Soulmates - All Soulmates Have D/s Dynamic bratty sub Brat gets punishment and aftercare Cock piercing as sign of ownership Experienced sub in scene with inexperienced dom Enthusiastic masochist encourages ashamed sadist Sub being made to admit sexual fantasies out loud (consensually but without prior negotiation) fingered to orgasm after discipline spanking
As I said, I think these two could be absolutely obnoxious together. I don't care who doms. If it's "again harder so I can see it" Tanner or "I can't stop pushing people to so things they don't want to" Kayden. I just want them to work through the tension and figure out how to enjoy each other. And by enjoy I mean drive each other up the wall until someone ends up over someone's need/on a cross/on a spanking bench, take your pick
Critical Role Campaign 3
Ashton Greymoore/Orym/Dorian Storm
Ashton Greymoore/OrymA/B put on a show to try to entice C to join them for BDSM Undercover at a Fetish Club Size Difference - Smaller Person Tops Bigger Person Fight Sex - Continuing to playfully wrestle for dominance after sex starts Fight Sex - Sub deliberately lets themself get pinned and fucked D/s - Dom lovingly fucks sub with lacy panties pushed aside
Look, I haven't seen anything past episode 11 (yes, I'm that far behind), but I am deeply invested in one earth genasi barbarian and his fighterDom buddy, with or without the air genasi pretty boy. For just the two of them I'd love to see the fighting prompt. Let's have a spar and fuck each others brains out. If Dorian is involved, send them to an exclusive establishment to gain some kind of intel. Let them go in separately and be surprised how well the others fit in. Or let them plan how to go on only to have a sudden moment of 'oh fuck, I'm giving away to much about myself, but also, they're picking up a lot of what I'm putting down...', make it an awkward 'sub has to dom because of stereotypes and everyone is just glad to get out'. Go wild.
Critical Role RPF
Taliesin Jaffe/Ivan Van NormanBoot Worship/Licking Person everyone thinks is a dom is actually a sub Chastity Device Dom surprises sub with application of previously negotiated but forgotten kink
Oh man, those two both give such grounded vibes. Self-assured, dependable, strong. I have no preference at all which one is actually a sub. I just want them to get together and have a nice quiet scene. Somewhere private. Just the two of them enjoying the dynamic between them.
Taliesin Jaffe/Matthew Mercer/Marisha RayA/B put on a show to try to entice C to join them for BDSM Dom and sub's first time at a private BDSM club/gathering Dom Keeps a Sub in Their Office for Easy Access Throughout Work Day D/s - Dom makes use of sub's praise kink Sub being made to admit sexual fantasies out loud (consensually but without prior negotiation) Chastity Device
So, Matt and Taliesin always feel like one drunk confession away from getting somewhere. And Marisha seems both confident in herself and willing to try out new things to see what that could have been. Or is the problem that Matt and Tal are on the same side of the dynamic and Marisha is the catalyst needed (Marisha has two hands after all)?
Would love to see Matt and Marisha going somewhere new, seeing Taliesin across the room and deciding to just go for it. Or planning a campaign on Taliesin's resolve by creating opportunities for him to walk in on them.
Taliesin Jaffe/Matthew MercerBDSM AU - Dom pretends to own sub to protect them in a world where all subs must be owned Ashamed masochist sub being forced to admit they like pain by sadist top Chastity Device Collars
I just love the story of Matt and Tal's friendship, and I'd love to see something building on that. Doesn't have to be sexual, if you follow the AU prompt they don't even have to be intimate. And while I would enjoy the two of them realizing their feelings for each other, I'd also enjoy seeing this with Matt/Marisha endgame where Taliesin 'lets Matt go' to be owned by Marisha.
Alternately I am always here for the reverse dynamic of Matt owning Tal, so that his mother can finally stop fretting.
Taliesin Jaffe/Marisha Ray24/7 D/s Biting Dom Bondage - Dom gags sub with sub's own lacy panties Cock & Ball Torture D/s - Dom leaves bruises and bite marks on sub Dom Keeps a Sub in Their Office for Easy Access Throughout Work Day Experienced sub in scene with inexperienced dom Person everyone thinks is a dom is actually a sub
Marisha, creative director, model, charity boxer. Why not add Dom to the list and let her take over Tal's world? Maybe she's flustered at first, maybe she's worried she'll do Tal's experience justice, but she finds her feet and rocks his world.
If you are more inclined towards the alternate dynamic, I bet Marisha would look beautiful with some well placed bitemarks. Or maybe some rope keeping her in place for Tal to play with.
Taliesin Jaffe tops Robbie DaymondBlindfolds Age Play - Sub accidentally calling dom Mommy/Daddy leads to unnegotiated ageplay Bondage - Bondage worn in public hidden under clothes Kneeling Leashes Dom and sub's first time at a private BDSM club/gathering
Robbie is such an earnest sweetheart (just look at his latest 'what day of the week is it' tweet). I want to see him flustered. Make that boy blush. Make him squrim. Make him enjoy himself as Tal guides him through figuring out this new side of himself.
Let me tell you all about the who the what and the how.
As you might have noticed, my selection of freeforms tends towards the setting more than the kink. Not because I don't have kinky preferences, but more because I'm willing to read pretty much everything that is not part of my DNWs as long as the characters are enjoying it... Or at least have an emotionally satisfying encounter -- looking at you, Tanner. Of course not all kinks are created equal, so I will give you a bit of an rundown again
Bulletproof kinks: exhibitionism (in particulary a character being restrained in some position or another to be put on display/photographed), free use (a character being restrained in a position that allows friends or strangets to use them), verbal humiliation of the fond kind (characters being called slut, fuck-toy or similar, characters being complimented on how needy or wet they are, characters being praised for how pretty they beg, etc)
Other favourites: bratty subs/brat taming, spankings both for the fun of it and for punishment (over the knee, with belt or hand or other implement); shibari bondage; leather harnesses; costumes/revealing outfits (schoolgirl uniforms, maid outfit, etc); service submission (cockwarming, boot blacking, human furniture); caretaking roleplay (ageplay, petplay, medical exam); biting; cbt (slapping, pinching, sounding, clamps)
Good in combination with any of the above: more heavy painplay both for its own sake and for punishment (floggers, whips, canes, crops), predicament bondage, cock-rings, breeding, prostate milking, body modification (piercings or tattoos), desperation play (making sub wait to use the bathroom but letting them go before they wet themself), wet and messy (either thanks to an abundance of cum/wetness, or lube)
Indifferent: blood play, fireplay, orgasm delay/denial, anything that's not on any of the other lists
DNW: scat, watersports (with the exception of desperation play outlined above), vomit, tickling, needles
Once we get past the kinks I'm a sucker for characters trying new things or reaching some kind of emotional milestone -- again looking at you, Kayden and Tanner. Doesn't matter if it's a pair's/trio's first time or if they've been partners for decades. There's always opportunities for new experiences.
If you want to take things AU, I am fond of AUs that take the existing setting and add something to it (BDSM, soulmates, a/b/o, supernatural powers, etc)
My DNWs are: non-con (undernegotiated kink is fine, sub-con is fine, just make it clear that characters are on board inside their heads), unhealthy relationships (the exception being Kayden and Tanner, who I believe start out in an incredibly unhealthy place but are actively working to move past that), unhappy endings (the story should have at least a silver lining), cheating (give me hall passes, give me everyone is poly, give me the canon spouses don't exist, just make sure everyone is okay with what's happening)
Now on to the fandom specifics
Sagas of Sundry: Dread
Kayden tops Tanner Sills
There's a scene early on in Dread where Sat admonishes Kayden not to push people to do things they don't want to do. Kayden replies, that he can't stop pushing people to do thingbs they don't want, it's his whole thing. Let's build on that and take it to the kink sphere, where Kayden is the kind of Dom who will push and prod and taunt his sub to do or endure what he wants. Now turn that onto Tanner, who spends most of the series clamming up and keeping his own desires hidden and you have a recipe for a perfect storm. I don't care how Tanner survived the mountain, or if they brought him back to live (and bound him to Kayden maybe?), what matters is that they are figuring their relationship out. Or maybe figuring out how to make their relationship go from the occassional bout of hate-fucking to something more steady?
Kayden/Tanner Sills
As I said, I think these two could be absolutely obnoxious together. I don't care who doms. If it's "again harder so I can see it" Tanner or "I can't stop pushing people to so things they don't want to" Kayden. I just want them to work through the tension and figure out how to enjoy each other. And by enjoy I mean drive each other up the wall until someone ends up over someone's need/on a cross/on a spanking bench, take your pick
Critical Role Campaign 3
Ashton Greymoore/Orym/Dorian Storm
Ashton Greymoore/Orym
Look, I haven't seen anything past episode 11 (yes, I'm that far behind), but I am deeply invested in one earth genasi barbarian and his fighter
Critical Role RPF
Taliesin Jaffe/Ivan Van Norman
Oh man, those two both give such grounded vibes. Self-assured, dependable, strong. I have no preference at all which one is actually a sub. I just want them to get together and have a nice quiet scene. Somewhere private. Just the two of them enjoying the dynamic between them.
Taliesin Jaffe/Matthew Mercer/Marisha Ray
So, Matt and Taliesin always feel like one drunk confession away from getting somewhere. And Marisha seems both confident in herself and willing to try out new things to see what that could have been. Or is the problem that Matt and Tal are on the same side of the dynamic and Marisha is the catalyst needed (Marisha has two hands after all)?
Would love to see Matt and Marisha going somewhere new, seeing Taliesin across the room and deciding to just go for it. Or planning a campaign on Taliesin's resolve by creating opportunities for him to walk in on them.
Taliesin Jaffe/Matthew Mercer
I just love the story of Matt and Tal's friendship, and I'd love to see something building on that. Doesn't have to be sexual, if you follow the AU prompt they don't even have to be intimate. And while I would enjoy the two of them realizing their feelings for each other, I'd also enjoy seeing this with Matt/Marisha endgame where Taliesin 'lets Matt go' to be owned by Marisha.
Alternately I am always here for the reverse dynamic of Matt owning Tal, so that his mother can finally stop fretting.
Taliesin Jaffe/Marisha Ray
Marisha, creative director, model, charity boxer. Why not add Dom to the list and let her take over Tal's world? Maybe she's flustered at first, maybe she's worried she'll do Tal's experience justice, but she finds her feet and rocks his world.
If you are more inclined towards the alternate dynamic, I bet Marisha would look beautiful with some well placed bitemarks. Or maybe some rope keeping her in place for Tal to play with.
Taliesin Jaffe tops Robbie Daymond
Robbie is such an earnest sweetheart (just look at his latest 'what day of the week is it' tweet). I want to see him flustered. Make that boy blush. Make him squrim. Make him enjoy himself as Tal guides him through figuring out this new side of himself.
